I can't let it go. This is crap. What is wrong with your relationship is YOU. Open your eyes. Is it human nature to love all the pretty people? Yep. We all do. Babies, children, teenagers, men, women, and on and on. Get real. That doesn't mean we fuck the next available person for the simple thrill of it. It is also human nature to try and find the love of your life. The one who you could not cheat on if you even tried. We are also wired this way. You need to open your eyes and accept that you have not committed to the right person. Just because you care about them, love them, and may have even married them - does not mean you did the right thing for you. Commitment (i.e. Monogamy) is respecting another person. It is really that simple. If you cannot do this, then you should walk away from them - that is also respect. Give them this much. I have been cheated on. I have been the cheater. I have been the player. And I have been played. Guess what? I am a woman, not a man and I truly do understand your post. I have done a lot of reflection and realized the problem is just me most of the time. I make my own choices and screw myself over. But I still never give up on finding the one. The one monogamous relationship because it really was so much better. OP <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< Dealing with monogamy - m4w (not easy) This is a shout out to the universe - not someone in particular. There's nothing natural about monogamy. What's natural, is inner human drive (especially in men) to crave a woman he finds attractive. Just because you agree to live with someone and be exclusive does not mean that you can shut down that inner thing that makes you desire the skin of another. My relationship is fine. There's nothing wrong with it. In many ways it's great. But I still crave someone new, if only once. Just to experience it again. If I ended my relationship just so I could once again experience other women (as I so desperately want to), I would eventually find myself growing weary of dating and would want to settle down. The cycle repeats. There is no perfect situation. Each side (single or attached) has its pro's and con's. Whether it's a store, a restaurant, work, or practiy any place else, I see so many women that catch my eye. These are everyday women, which isn't a slight to say that they're plain, etc. Far from. They're just everyday women that I wish I could experience. She doesn't feel the same way and just doesn't have my drive. So suggesting an open relationship or swinging thing isn't going to happen. I don't know how others do it. It's driving me crazy. Surely, I'm not alone in this? I know other men feel the same way I do. It's nature. It's how we're wired. It's nothing personal. Men crave women. But do women ever feel the same?. I wants sex dating.
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